I think my marriage is over….
Lanaya, Why did you marry Jason? Ask yourself did I marry him because I loved
him or did I marry him out of desperation, not wanting to be alone. Jason has
loved you no matter your weight. At least give it time and give him a chance.
Try voicing yourself a little. Tell him that you feel like you are his Mom
instead of his wife. See if you can open some communication between the two
of you. Sometimes when people loose weight and feel good about themselves
they sort of revert back to the needing to sew their wild oats stage again.
(I have seen it with two of my friends) They started acting like 20 years
younger and wanted to run around (sex) like crazy. But in the end they were
sorry and felt embarrassed of their behavior. I guess I am saying, like many
others….. Don’t make any rash decisions. Take your time to evaluate the
situation and by all means talk to your husband and take time out from
hanging around with the other guy. It sounds as if your thought are clouded
right now and being around him will only make it worse.
Pat ——