Subject: Re: Sex Drive
SEX DRIVE? Did someone say SEX DRIVE?
Sex has a whole new meaning for me. I dont know about others. ITs wonderful.
<not that is was bad before
it was low before either. lol. Its just so much more fun now. My boyfriend
can pick me up and do all sorts of things unimagineable when you are morbidly
obese. I can SEE things i never could see before.
But there have been some weird times. Feeling a hip bone or pelvic. The
loose skin and the nonexistense of breasts anymore has made me at times feel
more self conscious than i ever felt in my life being overweight. But i have
a partner that makes me feel beautiful. Then and now, so that is a big
difference. I talk of tummy tuck and boob jobs and he just sighs. Saying if
i want to do it, do it. But dont do it for him. He loves who i am and what my
body has become.
I lvoe it that you can be so much closer to the one you love. And i do mean
closer in the physical sense. Everything just FITS better.
A male friend in my support group says his wife says he seems to have gotten
about 2 more inches “there” since losing inches everywhere else. His wife
just laughs and says that she cant keep up with him most of the time. So I
think Men get a new lease on their sex life too. Huh guys??? 
I definately think it gets better because you feel better physically and
mentally. Though i have had some nasty mood swings and times when i was like
JUST GO AWAY…but i think thats just a girl thing regardless of weight! Huh
gals??? I think the biggest and most important thing, is to feel good about yourself,
and that will come across in every aspect of your life. Sexually,
emotionally, professionally, personally.
Just my 2 cents worth, ok, YES, i do always seem to have a post when it comes
to sex. Cant help it.
Becky in Ocala
252 starting…
132 now! 11 months post op.
Size 24 then, size 8 now!
44dd then, 36b now?
I say i dont have boobs anymore, just the envelopes that they came in!