Angry/Need Support
I am experiencing a lot of anger post op. It has nothing to do with the
surgery itself, it is more a social thing. I feel like since having wls and
making a major change in my life, I am changing my boundaries and no longer
wish to tolerate or deal with people who treated me poorly when I was
fat..well I am still fat ,but I am on the road to changing that and well I
suppose a whole lot about who I am is changing. I have always been very
social, well-liked and fairly popular in my social circle but there has
always been an undercurrent of individuals who feel they did not have to
treat me well becuase of my size. Now, I am so pissed off and angry
constantly. I have and continue to be in therapy on going ( for many years)
and don’t feel it is an interpersonal therapy issue specific to me per se,
but rather an obstacle I am truly having to face. I need support and some
dialogue around this, and I would specifically like to hear from people who
has experienced these feelings, are experiencing these feelings and can
relate to what I am expressing. Please e-mail me privately. Thanks!