to Dee
Dee, I read your post and i have a comment about your husband. You
said, “I know my husband loves me in his own way, and he has no
doubt put up with alot from me, (including marrying me pre-op), ”
I know that society puts a lot of negativity on the obese simply for
existing but don’t do it to yourself. If he isn’t comitted to you or
the marriage, perhaps he is comitted to the “old” you. I’m sorry for
saying the unpopular thing here, but nobody is a hero for marrying an
obese person. It sounds like you are a wonderful giving person and
it shouldn’t matter what your weight was then or is now.
Do what you need to do to get your “sparkle” back!
Mary