need your opinions!
Saturday, September 24th, 2005I have been thru this hole ordeal of getting approved and I even got
a surgery date, but 2 weeks later I got a positive pregnancy test. So
I canceled my surgery and was trying to deal with the disappointment
of not being thinner this year, and everyones words or wisdom to me
were the surgery wasnt meant to be at this time or this is a sign not
to have the surgery, so I was accepting “lifes” will and was trying
to get happy about being fat and pregnant again. and then this week I
had a miscarriage actually the baby died and had to be surgically
removed. so now I am confused if the baby was meant to be and the
surgery wasnt- fine! but now the baby wasnt meant to be, so does this
now mean the surgery is meant to be or should I start fresh and
rethink this whole thing? has anyone else been thru this and what
choice did you make? My family is now more scared for me to have the
WLS especially my kids, they think I should just try to diet and
excercise the old fashion way. because the second I found out I was
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