Denise Rasley - Change in perspective
Denise, I am bawling as I sit here reading your email, I’ve read it 3 times
and seem to cry harder as I read and reread it. I am so sorry that this has
happened to you, take heart sister it’s happened to a lot of us I’m sure. I
just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone, I feel the same way, I’ll
always be a ‘fat chick’ that 330 lb girl is still who I am, the only thing
that’s changed is my outward appearance and I CANT STAND those people that
want to talk to me now who ignored me before. I’ve had a body appearance
change, but my heart’s still the same as it was when I was 330 lbs and that
‘fat chick’ that they didnt like before.
Amazing and sad how people behave isn’t it? i have a few ex friends and i’ll
stress EX friends because 3 of them haven’t had the surgery but 2 of them
have had the surgery and they have become the people that are mean and ugly.
actually talking about someone being ’so fat’ or ‘tubby over there in the
blue dress’ …… i’m like WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING, SAYING AND
BECOMING? they are the people that are wrapped in beautiful bodies but have
very ugly souls…. i don’t communicate with them any more…..they have
very mean spirits too!
Love you Denise and all that you have done and continue to do for the OSSG
and for those fighting for the surgery. THAT makes you even more beautiful
than the eye can see, thats ’soul deep beauty’ and I’d rather be soul
beautiful than physically beautiful any day!
a massive hug to you and my heart goes out to you too - it’s still hard and
i’m 3 years this oct.
all my best to you YOU physically & soul PRETTY LADY!
sign me as another loud, bitchy chick with fly-away hair
Michelle
(Raven)