I went to a club outing this weekend and saw a number of people I
hadn’t seen in several months. Everyone was complimentary about my
weight loss, which always feels good. The event included a picnic
lunch; each couple brought their own lunch and some brought appetizers
or desserts to share. My contribution was a can of peanuts. As I
helped myself to a few, one of the fellows there shook his finger at
me and went “unh unh.” I said “these are healthy, I can eat a few.”
At the end of the event another woman and I were cleaning up; she had
put together a plate of leftover desserts for the host, but she
expressed hesitation at bringing them into the kitchen for fear of
tempting the hostess. The hostess had RNY several years ago with
moderate success; she’s still overweight, but much less so than
before, and she has other health problems which are much improved, but
still there: diabetes, sleep apnea, bad arthritis (she’s had knee
replacement surgery). I got a bit irritated at this “protective”
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