the sex issue
I just have to say, I have been ROTFL at some of the things you are all are
saying. Although it isn’t a funny topic (not being totally gratified during
sex), you guys are putting some needed humor in it.
Hubby and I are really excited about the prospect of sex after the surgery.
At 420+ lbs, sex is still very good, but it is a chore to have to hold a
position for a long time or even to move around to change positions. So I
am thinking can ya hurry it up a bit, to save my muscles and back, but it
isn’t as satisfying, to say the least.
It is SOOOOO wonderful to hear that other women aren’t as “accessible” also.
I had always wondered if it was just me lol. it is really nice to hear
people finally talking about teh more intimate topics of being heavy.
I have to say, other than getting healthier and fitting into things that
“normies” fit into, sex is the third on the list as to what is important to
me after WLSor what the WLS will be give me back.
I know I am just babbling, but I wanted to say thanks for bringing up the
topic and thanks for sharing your experiences with teh rest of us. it helps
knowing that there are people out there going through and feeling the same
things I am :o)
Ann in NB